What does Kairos mean?
Kairos comes from the Greek word meaning “defining moment”. In my experience coaching is a means by which an individual or couple can experience Kairos moments which can have a transformative effect on their lives and in their relationships.
Why do I do what I do?
Enabling an individual or couple to be the best that they can be is what gets me out of bed in the morning. I believe there is gold to be mined in every individual and in every relationship and that when it is discovered it literally changes everything.
What do I do?
I coach individuals and couples seeking to grow and move forward in their lives. I work mostly online.
Why do individuals or couples come to me for coaching?
I attract individuals who want to pursue their destiny and calling in life and couples who want to develop a more emotionally connected partnership. I also attract couples who are preparing for marriage and want to ensure that their marriage is founded and grounded on well researched principles and practices to give their relationship the greatest chance of life long success. I see individuals and couples with a specific Christian faith and also those with different faith perspectives.
"Working with Tania has had a profound positive effect on our marriage. We found her insights and her kind nudging helped us to reconnect with each other in ways we had never done in 30 years of marriage.
When we started with Tania we were in a tricky spot. But nothing fazed her and we were left with the feeling that if we'd had the good sense to work with her a few years ago we could have avoided a lot of heartache.
We had sessions with Tania weekly initially which were done over Zoom because of the pandemic. Each time we came away having worked through something or gained a new insight which meant it was not hard to find the motivation to continue. Her practice is to ask for written brief reflections after each session and having those as a permanent record is super useful. We go back over them from time to time.
Tania has a natural gift for seeing what’s going on and having the right tools to resolve it. She is not like someone who has learned the skill – although she is clearly very well and thoroughly trained – she is just naturally gifted and uses those gifts in a spontaneous and fun way.
The tools Tania has given us now allow us to work through moments of disconnection by ourselves. We see her periodically (though much less frequently now) and it's a joy to know that we have this safety net.
We're extremely thankful for Tania. We're here to tell you that you don't have to put up with a mediocre marriage, you can have a rich deep loving connection. Whatever state you're in it's not too late!"
Mr & Mrs M, Sussex
What are my core values?
I am a member of the International Coaching Federation and subscribe to their code of ethics.
I undertake regular supervision and continuous professional development in order to ensure my own practice continues to develop and grow.